Formerly, in many books and films always say “Best friends stay forever”. But, we aware tahat it isn’t always true. Best friends sometimes do go away.
A friend can “go” because many thing. One of them, because she has a new friend. Eiittsss….don’t be panic when you see your friend take a walk with another friend. It isn’t mean that she will leave us. But, if your friend show two from five signals in this point, may be we must be wary.
The Signals :
A friend never tell for us again.
If we go together, she just be quiet.
Each we be there, she and her new friend suddenly stop the convertation.
They go without invite us
We never reply tweet/comment with each other in facebook, twitter, or another social network. But she and her new friend do that.
Take these move.
Because you are afraid loss BFF, we usually do silly thing like you blame her new friend. Oooppss„, don’t be amazed if she will go away fastly from us. So, Mrs. Sani B. Hermawan from Lembaga Konsultasi psikologi Daya Insani, share about the way to defend our bff.
Tell her.
Try to take a good time. If she is a true friend, she never be hesitate to hear your story. Tell her about our feelings. Ask her why she do that and if we have a mistake, don’t hesitate to say sorry.
Attention.
If the condition not same previously, no doubt to open the convertation. Asking the condition. If we hear that she get a sick, we can visit her. Showing her if we care to her.
adapted from Kawanku, No 98-2011(04-18 Mei 2011)
Tranlation by Binti Shofiatul
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A friend can “go” because many thing. One of them, because she has a new friend. Eiittsss….don’t be panic when you see your friend take a walk with another friend. It isn’t mean that she will leave us. But, if your friend show two from five signals in this point, may be we must be wary.
The Signals :
A friend never tell for us again.
If we go together, she just be quiet.
Each we be there, she and her new friend suddenly stop the convertation.
They go without invite us
We never reply tweet/comment with each other in facebook, twitter, or another social network. But she and her new friend do that.
Take these move.
Because you are afraid loss BFF, we usually do silly thing like you blame her new friend. Oooppss„, don’t be amazed if she will go away fastly from us. So, Mrs. Sani B. Hermawan from Lembaga Konsultasi psikologi Daya Insani, share about the way to defend our bff.
Tell her.
Try to take a good time. If she is a true friend, she never be hesitate to hear your story. Tell her about our feelings. Ask her why she do that and if we have a mistake, don’t hesitate to say sorry.
Attention.
If the condition not same previously, no doubt to open the convertation. Asking the condition. If we hear that she get a sick, we can visit her. Showing her if we care to her.
adapted from Kawanku, No 98-2011(04-18 Mei 2011)
Tranlation by Binti Shofiatul
